I am hardwired to be optimistic.
It takes a lot to get me down… usually a combination of illness/injury, eating poorly & not sleeping enough.
But like you, every day something tries to undermine my hope:
I am married to a wonderful man, who tends to be more of an Eeyore in nature, mostly due to his having seen so much in his nursing career over the last two decades.
I have had random twitches joint pain which has still not been diagnosed, leaving me exhausted some nights, and make it hard to fall asleep on others.
I too have had unexpected expenses pop up.
The loss of a loved one.
The dishwasher conking out when it was full.
My order not show up.
Not enough work.
Too much work.
Our complaint lists can keep going and going like the Energizer bunny, if we keep feeding them.
I choose to feed my hope.
Not on fluffy catchy feel better quotes.
Not on physical food or drink.
With the hope that lasts…
God given hope which rests on Him as its sole source.
In a world seeking bargains and making our lives as ease filled as possible, it dumbfounds me to see people spend millions on make it all better in 10 day programs.
If it didn’t take 10 days to get there, it isn’t going to take 10 days to get back out….just saying.
Since my life has had a lot of knocks, whacks and pitfalls, I need a source of Hope that can take all the concerns and worries I have, and then some, for days to come, for the rest of my life.
God is my choice.
He even paid the cost, fellow bargain hunters, so we can come to Him without barrier.
He even invites us to come and find rest in the shelter He has to offer:
He himself is our peace (Eph 2:14)
Come to me,all who are weary and heavy laden (burdened) and I will give you rest. (Matthew 11:28)
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11)
“Because he loves Me,” says the Lord, “I will rescue him;
I will protect him, for he acknowledges My name.
He will call on Me, and I will answer him;
I will be with him in trouble,
I will deliver him and honor him.
With long life I will satisfy him
and show him my salvation.”
(Psalm 91:14-16).
God told them, “I’ve never quit loving you and never will. Expect love, love, and more love!”
(Jeremiah 31:3a)
This is just a glimpse of the treasured promises from God for you.
He knows you.
Despite anything you may have done or will ever do, He loves you dearly.
He made a way for you to come home and be with Him, your heavenly Father.
Jesus calls you sibling, friend, chosen, apple of His eye.
Holy Spirit is within you to guide you, help you in any way you need Him to.
God with us.
That is where I place my hope.
Not on shifting trends, things that pass away and don’t last.
On the foundation of Hope my God has laid down for me.
All my hope is in Him.
The path of hope is waiting for you as well.
Its a journey unlike no other, but with Him leading you, you will always have reason to be thankful, give praise and hope.
(Repost from Sept 17, 2014 as I am out & about getting ready to celebrate one of my babies’ birthday today, and this is one of my fave posts!)
This is awesome. My husband has many health issues, and it would be easy to focus on all that goes wrong or could happen in our future. But I too choose hope. Because God is a good Daddy. A trustworthy Father. A faithful God.
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Absolutely Carrie!
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Thanks for sharing that! I’m so glad we have real hope and not “fluffy catchy feel better quotes.” They’re nice, but they don’t hold a candle to the inexplicable hope, the peace that passes all understanding, and the unspeakable joy we have through our salvation. I’m praying that your fever and joint pain miraculously goes away, too. But even if it doesn’t, consider Paul’s thorn (2 Corinthians 12:7-9) and trust that God’s grace is sufficient for you and His strength is made perfect in our weakness.
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Amen! I am reminded also that His ways are not ours, and I can trust Him despite my outlook in the moment!
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Amen! God can always be our choice inspite of circumstances!
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Thanks Evie 🙂
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Wonderful & full of wisdom. Respectfully, proofreading strongly suggested
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Thanks for the comments. Appreciate the heads up on the typos!
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I am not hotwired to be optimistic :), I have to carefully choose hope, it is not my default. I am thankful for wonderful friends who keep reminding me from whom my help (and hope) come from. Thank you for a lovely reminder.
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Thank you for sharing Kristen! Bless you as you keep choosing hope!!
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I love this! I too find the good in 99% of things but as you said, there are those things that you just can’t. The choice is ours.
Many people thing that I’m always spreading joy because I have it all or have the best of everything or never have antying bad happen in my world…but that isn’t true at all. I love spreading joy because of the joy it brings to me and the person receiving it. 🙂
thanks for the smile!
@spreadingJOY
Marie
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It is amazing to me how we can help shift the atmosphere from despair to a glimmer of hope when we smile or encourage someone who needs it!
Blessings, Marie!
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