Chatting more about one aspect of community which needs more discussion

Today has been a rough day mentally so far.

My sister in law would have been 50 years old today. The one I was the most like, with our mutual loves of administration, organization & cats.

Mental illness took her from us far too early, yet I know I will see her again one day. Which doesn’t mean that she isn’t missed at every holiday, celebration or milestone in our family.

One aspect of community which doesn’t get talked about enough is mental wellness. And we need to. Coz many of us have hidden our emotions away for far too long. Whether childhood trauma, abuse, hormonal or chemical imbalances – we all need to hear that even if we are struggling, we matter & have value to our community.

My support circle is fully aware that I am not perfect, but I always try to be present any time they need me, even if it is by phone or text as I am too far away.

Coz when one of us is hurting, we all are when community matters. Knowing someone cares helps.

@wondherful is one voice of someone making a difference in the mental wellness battle. Her story is super inspiring.

The book Redefining Anxiety by @johndelony was super helpful to me as well as refreshingly honest.

@itsjuliwilson & @kaylasteck are widows who have lost their husbands to mental illness. Their feeds on Instagram talk about the struggles of being the ones left behind.

Speaking with a counselor or excellent physician can be helpful. I have done so regularly with one or the other, and in one season both, as well as maintained a few close relationships where we can tell each other anything, and know we are loved just as we are.

If mental illness has affected your circle of family and/or friends, leave a 💙 in the comments, and please know that you are not alone.

I helped get a friend who overdosed in high school to hospital in time to make a difference. My boyfriend at the time’s good friend did not speak up, and didn’t make it through his battle. I have been acutely aware of the battle for mental wellness since I was a young teen.

If mental illness is currently affecting you personally, leave a 🙏. Please know that I have been there (depression & anxiety) and there is no judgment here, friend. I will pray you will find the right community to best support you. And know that I’m sending you a 🫂 and will keep you in my prayers.

By Way of the Moonlight – book review

Author Elizabeth Musser has written a magnificent story of two strong women with a generation between them and a mutual love of horses.

Barbara Dale, beloved grandmother to Allie, passes away, and Allie is left to sort out not only the family property which has unexpectedly been stolen out from under her, but the hidden history her grandmother left for her to discover after her death.

And what a history it is!

Love, drama, heartbreak, suspense with past & current history are all written together in this family saga of a good read. And of course, lots about horses!

Both of the female main characters are exceptionally well written, and have an emotional depth which made reading their intertwining stories a delight as the plot unfolded.

My favorite parts involve the moonlight rides and the love of a remarkable couple, and the miraculous double discoveries, one of which completely shocked me, in a good way!

PS. In fact, this book is so well written that even though I was given a copy of this book to review by Graf-Martin Communications, I purchased a copy so I could support the author!

By Way of the Moonlight

by Elizabeth Musser

Bethany House Publishers

Aug 2, 2022

when the best action after a reaction is for me not to move into action

When I get upset or angry after being hurt, I used to immediately take action. And almost always made things worse.

God has been reminding me of late that He is a God of ACTION, and He is more than ABLE to not only comfort me, but battle for me as He actively involves Himself in whatever situation I invite Him into. 

So I have been learning to not impulsively act when I am hurting or pissed off, but to wait until I can talk the situation over with Him. For every time I do, He reveals something I wouldn’t otherwise have known, and actively directs me on how to respond.

I received an email a while ago which really upset me.  And my usual initial surge of upset indignation and irritation immediately swelled to full alert. But I didn’t let it out.

I gave it over to God, and waited for His direction. I went to a wiser person who was aware of the situation, and asked them to help me wait to respond until I heard from Him.

I have not needed to respond, actually. God took it out of my hands and highlighted the issues higher up the chain, where they needed to be addressed. GOD moved into action on my behalf, and removed me from the situation. Not how I would have initially handled it, but exactly how it needed to be dealt with.

As His daughter, I need to trust God will move into ACTION on my behalf for the best results for me.

My best weapon for defense is God as my offense.


Honest prayers – seeking patience

🌿God, as I look back at this past week, I can see how You have been revealing truth to me. Verses which I have encountered like a previously undiscovered patch of wildflowers or growth of bushes – there whether I pay attention to them or not, for Your Word is forever. Yet how delighted You are when we praise You once we see You in a fresh way.

I am so grateful that You not only made the way Home possible through Jesus, You shine Your Spirit upon the areas I need to give over to You to be set free, restored and developed as You desire.

And as I give over these highlighted areas, such as developing patience, You show me a new picture of the depths You will go to connect, guide and love me through to victory.


relax & trust

Even before I knew I needed You, You knew my need and laid Your love & very life on the line for me.

Once & for always, forever & ever, You showed us just how much You valued us by kicking sin in the gut & defeating death. Light defeated darkness, shining brightky across time and creation in a public, permanent display of Holy Love.

So when this day turns out to be exhausting, frustrating, stress full and I am desperate for a clean start? You reassure me You already won the battle, and have made a way though it for me into the victory awaiting me as I follow You.

Wide open space is up ahead. Even when I can’t yet see the way, Your promises remind me You’ve already prepared the path and You’re walking each step beside me.

So I am learning to relax & trust You when the fog and/or tears blur my vision, as I take You at Your Word and step out in patience & hope on these hard days. 



“Your love breaks on me like an ocean and I’m caught up in Your rolling seas. In Your love is a place like a wide open space, call me out into all I can be.

(Chorus) I found my life in mercy deep. I found Your Kingdom on my knees. I found salvation wild and free when I found You.

I will walk on the waves of Your promise. I will walk in Your Word over me. In Your love is a place like a wide open space, call me out into all I can be…

Repeat Chorus

I will walk on the waves of Your promise. Call me out into all I can be!

Repeat Chorus”

WIDE OPEN SPACE by LIFE Worship featuring Matt Hooper

Watch & listen here:

#singanewpsalm #worshipHymn

Moving from uncertainty to confidence

Uncertainty chases us out into the open where God’s always waiting for us.” @bobgoff

As I was preparing for my week, Romans 5 came to mind. Today, verses 1-2 captured my heart as God began to explain them to my mind.

By entering through faith into what God has always wanted to do for us—set us right with Him, make us fit for Him—we have it all together with God because of our Master Jesus. And that’s not all: We throw open our doors to God and discover at the same moment that He has already thrown open His door to us. We find ourselves standing where we always hoped we might stand—out in the wide open spaces of God’s grace and glory, standing tall and shouting our praise.”

Romans 5:1-2 MSG

In a nutshell? My faith in Him allows me to enter into His Presence to find He has ALWAYS been waiting there for me!

No matter what is going on and how impatient I become in those moments of uncertainty, He is the One in whom I can be certain, for He is constant and never changing.

I love connecting patience and faith because when we put them together we will be able to persist in confident expectation.” @grahamcooke


Coming back to the heart of it all

Time passes weirdly at times, doesn’t it, friend?

It’s hard to believe that almost a full month has passed since I last posted here.

And what a month it has turned out to be!

A month where I did a few things that scared me with His help.

A month where I have felt more alive within than ever before.

A month where I saw God move in unexpected ways.

A month where I have been intentionally connecting with God, family & close friends in a fresh way since COVID & my recent surgery.

A month where He has been pruning and stirring me towards fresh growth.

I look forward to sharing more with you in the coming days.

But first things first.

Happy Labour Day weekend, friend!

I will be back onsite (and in your inboxes!) on Tuesday.


Taking a closer look at things…

After a month of almost straight double shifts, our first out of town overnight guests in almost a decade & still only being 8.5 weeks post major surgery, things have been a little off kilter of late for me.

I am sensing God calling me into a new season, one where I can remain in what I call ‘a pleasant place’ hidden close by & within His embrace, regardless of the storms.

This quote by Patsy Clairmont was the catalyst God used to encourage me to make time to examine three of my favorite books of the Bible, and practically apply their collective wisdom in my life.

Psalm your heart, Proverbs your footsteps, and Philippians your faith.

Patsy Clairmont

Join me as I begin unpacking this quote on social media this month, friend. I pray God will meet both of us as we journey towards a deeper connection with Him!

#sharingHope #wisdomforlife